What if the loved one you are worried about got sober overnight? Hallelujah! Right! Yes and yes. Are you finding that sobriety takes a little getting used to? What are you feeling that should be different with sobriety, but isn’t? Are you finding yourself feeling angry and upset? Are you stuffing your feelings trying not…
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Are Teens Really Stupid? Parenting Teenagers Guide
I am happy to republish this post with a telling interview on parenting teens by the author of the book. Click the interview below! My almost teen said to me the other day, “Why do people not like teenagers?’ That broke my heart! Why do people not like teenagers I thought to myself? Not so…
Sober on Purpose Podcast
What is Coaching Anyway? What do Kid’s Really Think? Real Life for Real Families Podcast Is Recovery coaching Right For Me? to OverWhelmed to Live? Do you have goals you want to achieve in your life? Are you trying to reorganize your life or a family that struggles with addictions, codependency, anger, depression, divorce, or…
What is coaching?
What is Recovery Coaching? Life happens! If you have a belly button you deal with the trials of life. Sometimes those trials include hurts, habits and hang-ups. Are you baffled by your loved one’s responses after sobriety? Are you feeling angry and frustrated that life is not smoother? Are you worried that sobriety may not…
Signs You Might be Stress Eating
Five pounds, six pounds, seven pounds, it seems to just creep up on me. I think I have lost 100 lbs. The same 10 lbs over and over for the last 10 years. Are You A Stress Eater? Do you find yourself hunting in the cabinets for food when others around you are angry or…
Ask a Christian Counselor: Interview with Tres Adames
There is a new addition to the Sober on Purpose Podcast interviews. As we were wrapping up this first segment on codependency, I contacted another podcaster, Tres Adames, Director of Arizona Christian Counseling and host of Ask a Christian Counselor. While many families struggling with addiction seek counseling, it is often hard to know what…
Feeling Stressed About the Addict in Your Family?
Al-Anon describes alcoholism as a family disease. In fact, each alcoholic is said to affect five other people. Most of the time these are family members. Our lives are so busy, sometimes it can feel hard to breathe. Add a person(s) recovering from addiction in the mix and we feel like we are drowning. Reverse…
Codependent Families: What does not Help!
Stuck! For years, I felt that the Joyous Family was stuck. Just stuck in the same rotating issues over and over again. Crisis after crisis just kept banging on our door. Why, even after sobriety, did family life still feel, well, yucky? What keeps codependent families stuck? Then I walked into a Christian seminar by…
Are You a Codependent Parent?
Holding that first baby in my arms I felt my heart enlarged ten sizes. I was in love. A deep “I will die for you right now”, kind of love. I still feel that way about my children. Maybe too much? Hovering Codependent Parent There is the caricature of the stay-at-home mom who lives…
Why Codependency Turns You Away From God
Could you hear me, if I told you codependency is only a symptom? The way you choose to respond to a relationship or depend on a relationship is learned. Learned really? Yes! You learned it really early in your life with your primary caregivers. Now as with all learned behaviors you can blame, shame and…